Product Review: Tosowoong Enzyme Powder Wash

Okay, so this one could alternatively be titled, ‘How the Fashion Bird Doesn’t Follow Instructions.’ But I got there eventually, and that’s what counts, right? Join me on this journey.

If you’ve followed the blog for a bit, you’ll know that my skin is oily, acne-prone, and in need of just all the exfoliation. So when I found out about enzyme powder and rice powder cleaners, I thought ‘Great! I can exfoliate SO MUCH now.’

I got the Tosowoong Enzyme Powder Wash in my previous PinkSeoul box, and I was super pumped. Not only is this some extra exfoliation, but it’s also a much-cheaper enzyme powder cleanser than the Tatcha Rice Enzyme Powder that I absolutely love, and absolutely can’t afford right now. Vickie, if you’re listening, you know I’d buy only your products on the regular if I could, but as it stands, I buy what I can and shill for you on all my social media accounts instead. You seem really nice on Snapchat, so I think you’re okay with this.

I do have to thank Vickie, though, for showing me how to properly use the Tosowoong powder, after weeks of getting it wrong. I’d been using it as a scrub, just putting the powder on my wet face and rubbing until it lathered up, and I was really only getting mediocre results that way (probably because I was scratching the crap out of my face twice a day). Then I watched Tatcha’s Snapchat story one day, where Vickie explained that no, Bird, enzyme powders are not supposed to be a scrub. You’re supposed to pour a little powder into your hands, put some water on the powder, then rub it between your hands to dissolve the powder into a foam. Only then do you put it on your face and start washing.

‘Well,’ I thought. ‘That explains the middling results of this scrub.’ I started using my cleanser like Vickie recommended for hers, and lo and behold! This stuff is amazing, when you use it properly. My skin feels so soft right now, and just smooth and luminous all around. My nose-blackheads are almost invisible, which is just huge for me, and some of the acne cysts I’ve been battling along my jawline are finally starting to clear up properly.

Weird how things work better when you use them as intended.

Now that I’ve used the Tosowoong powder properly for a bit, I can safely say that this is a great product, especially if you have oily, rough, or congested skin. The enzyme action helps clear away all those extra skin cells that keep hanging around, and the foaming action feels really pleasant. It rinses off very cleanly, so there’s no residue or anything left behind, even if you’re double-cleansing or washing off makeup. There’s also not a strong smell to it, so I’d definitely recommend this to any Fledglings who are sensitive to the more perfumey skin products. At $11 on Peach and Lily, I doubt you’ll find a better deal on a cleanser – I’ve been using mine for almost two months now and haven’t used it up.

Of course, as an avid traveler, one of my favorite parts about this powder is how well it travels. No melting, no leaking, no separating – it’s POWDER. I could put this in my checked bag on a plane flight and save some room in my carry-on, as long as I taped the flip-top lid closed or put it in a baggie.

I’m going to get some more product reviews to you in the coming weeks, so keep watching the blog, and feel free to send me suggestions for new products to review on Twitter!

Natural Deodorant: Making the Switch

In the last blog, I reviewed Lavanila’s natural deodorant, and how it’s an overall good product. This week, I’m going to give you some hints if you want to switch to a gentler, less-processed brand of deodorant. It’s a bit of an adjustment, but if it’s a move you want to make, I’m here to ease the transition. Like I said a couple weeks ago, you’ll still get good results once you’ve adjusted to it.

If you’ve never switched from big-box to natural deodorant before, here are some things you should know before you make the leap.

  1. There’s an adjustment period for your body. Big-box deodorant has a bigger effect on your skin than you’d think – your body gets used to you using it all the time, so when you first stop using it, you’ll probably feel a tiny bit sweaty and/or smelly for a week or two while your skin adjusts to not being coated with metallic powder (Wikipedia says there’s no link between deodorant and health problems, as does the FDA, so going natural is an entirely aesthetic decision, but yeah, metallic powder). The excessive sweating calms down after that time, because your body has adjusted to life without the chemical stuff. You might just need to wash more often during that adjustment time.
  2. There’s an adjustment period for your mind too. The thing about chemical deodorant is that it makes your sweat smell like whatever insane fragrance they’re running that production cycle, so you kind of forget how humans are supposed to smell. When you start smelling like a human again, i.e. no longer sweating perfume, it’s a little unnerving. For a bit there, I couldn’t shake the idea that I smelled and everyone knew it. In Western society, that’s a pretty big problem. But I ran it by some close friends (because what are friends for?), and my mom has never been one to mince words if I smelled weird because her nose is as sensitive as mine, and it turns out it was all in my head. No, I didn’t smell like Coconut Moonbeam, but I didn’t ‘stink’ either. What a relief.
  3. You can’t reapply. You know the drill: you didn’t shower last night, you need to get out the door, so you put on another layer of deodorant and some body spray and it’s fine until you can shower after work, right? Not so with the natural stuff. It doesn’t have as many, or the same kind of, preservatives as the chemical stuff, so it soaks into your skin and wears off by the end of the day. If you’re an every-other-day shower-er, you might find yourself needing to just wash your pits with a washrag on your off days, so that you can reapply the deodorant to freshly-cleaned skin. It doesn’t fail to work entirely if you skip this step, but it definitely doesn’t work as well as if you’d washed up.
  4. There are two kinds of sweat. I knew this academically from a couple of Anatomy and Physiology classes I took in college, but it was a different story when I smelled the effects on myself, and it was a little surprising at first. Regular, daily sweat that’s there to regulate your body temperature doesn’t really smell all that much – natural deodorant handles this kind of sweat easily, even if it’s from working out. But then there’s stress sweat. Yikes. Stress sweat has some other chemicals in it, because  you’re sweating due to a different biological process that I won’t bore you with, so if you nearly get rear-ended, or your boss starts yelling at you, you might just start sweating in such a way that your deodorant can’t keep up. It’s not the end of the world, and it’s entirely possible that you’re the only one who can tell, but it is surprising when it first happens, because again, you’re no longer sweating Coconut Moonbeam, you’re sweating regular sweat like humans do, so you kind of become more aware of what’s going on in your body. For me, that’s a good thing, but it might not be for you. It’s good to be informed.
  5. Oh yeah – you start sweating again. It’s damnear impossible to find a mainstream brand of deodorant in America that isn’t also an antiperspirant. For the record, deodorant = not smelly, antiperspirant = not sweating. That metallic powder I mentioned earlier actually clogs up your sweat glands, which is what keeps you from sweating. It’s one of the reasons I switched – personally, I think we’re supposed to sweat. Natural deodorant doesn’t have that antiperspirant factor at all, so you have to get used to sweating again, just not smelling rank when you do it. Like I said, the extra sweating calms down after a bit, but if it’s hot out, you’re just going to sweat. The upside of this, however, is that while the big-box deodorant can sometimes cake onto your shirt when you sweat and be hard to wash out or stain your clothes, the natural stuff doesn’t do that. My clothes get cleaner and last longer if I’m just sweating normal human-sweat and not ‘sweat mixed with god-knows-what and Coconut Moonbeam fragrance.’
  6. It helps if you shave. Look, I’m not against armpit hair on anyone of any gender. It’s hair, and it’s on you, so I don’t care. But this isn’t an aesthetic thing – natural deodorant actually works better if it’s applied to hairless skin. It gets to soak into your skin better without hair getting in the way. Since it’s a gentler product, you kinda have to give it a leg-up by making sure it has the best chance to come into contact with your actual skin, which is the part that’s sweating. Also, more hair = more body odor. Why fight an uphill battle?

Hopefully this will arm you (see what I did there?) with some knowledge before you up your natural-skincare game. You may need to try a few brands before you find one that works, but once you do, I hope you enjoy the results. Happy hunting!

Product Review: Lavanila Natural Deodorant


There are several reasons a person might want to switch to a natural deodorant – maybe their skin is sensitive to the big-box brands, or they want to try a smaller brand to support a different kind of company, or they don’t like smelling like Cucumber Moonbeam all day. Wearing the natural stuff does require a little more work than the big-box deodorant, but if you’re thinking about making the switch for whatever reason, I have some tips for you, as well as a handy product review. You can get good results with the more natural products, with a few adjustments to your routine.

I got a hot tip from a Buzzfeed article a couple months ago, so I decided to try a new kind of deodorant. I’ve mentioned before that I once made my own deodorant using essential oils, but the thing about the homemade stuff is that it doesn’t travel well. The recipe I used, while effective, is made with coconut oil, which is only solid at room temperature. Leave it in your car for too long, and it’ll turn to liquid and you’ll have to wait for it to solidify again before you can use it, or risk making a huge mess. Gods forbid the container you put it in doesn’t seal well.

For the purposes of this post, I’m going to use the terms ‘big-box deodorant’ and ‘natural deodorant.’ The first will describe your mainstream stick or gel antiperspirant/deodorant combos that we all see on the aisles at the pharmacy. The latter will describe a botanical-based deodorant that still goes under the arms to make the user smell better, but is an alternative brand that might be less widely-available than the Big Box kind and is formulated differently. Are we good? Okay.

I’d done a round or two with some other store-bought natural deodorant brands before, but I didn’t like them for one reason or another. The main reason was that I smelled nasty when I used them, which kinda defeats the purpose of buying deodorant in the first place. They were also weirdly sticky when I applied them, which was off-putting. So when the article suggested Lavanila natural deodorant and insisted that it works well AND smells good, I was willing to give it a try.

Generally, I steer clear of any kind of scent that makes me smell like dessert, cuz ew. So I wasn’t completely on board with the vanilla scents in this line, but I thought I’d roll the dice on the Fresh Vanilla Lemon scent and see what happened. Citrus is usually a winner for me, so I was hoping the citrus would come through stronger than the vanilla.

Lavanila is some good stuff. It doesn’t have an overpowering smell like so many big-box deodorants do, which is a big plus for me. I don’t like having a ton of competing smells on me all day. It mostly smells like baby powder, but the smell is so subtle you have to work to find it once it’s on. It also stays solid, and goes on with a kind of powdery finish, so it’s convenient to keep and to wear. Overall, it’s a good one, and I’d recommend it.

Come back in two weeks if you’re wondering what it’s like to switch from big-box deodorant to the natural stuff! I’ve got some tips to make it easier and more effective.


Fail-Proof Your New Year’s Resolution

Happy New Year’s Eve, Fledglings! I sincerely hope 2017 is a better year for all of us.

This is the time of year when we resolve to improve our own lives in some way. We decide to lose weight, finish a degree, or start giving to charity, and I respect that. We should all want to improve ourselves. But with an abysmal eight percent of people actually succeeding in their resolution each year, I’m pretty sure we can improve on this process and be happier with ourselves come summer, when half of us will have dropped our resolution entirely.

We can’t go into a situation where we’re setting a goal and bring only emotion and hopes and dreams to the table. Think about your own emotions over the past week. Then think about them over the past month. Did your emotions go through changes in those time periods? Spoiler: yes, of course they did, because you’re a human being with a human-being brain (unless you’re my corgi reading this, in which case GET OFF THE COMPUTER, BECCA). What about your life circumstances this past year? Did you have hard times? Did you have awful days or weeks where you were struggling just to get by? Trust me, Fledglings, those hard times will bear down on you in 2017 as much as they did in any other year previous, so if you’re making a resolution based entirely on the hope that it won’t ever be challenged by lousy circumstances or foul moods, you are setting yourself up for failure.

What are we to do? Give up? Decide that life is too hard to make any meaningful changes and resign ourselves to our couches and Netflix? It’s an option, but if you’re reading an article about how to make a solid New Year’s resolution, I’m gonna go ahead and assume it’s an option you don’t want to take. Lucky for you, I do have some tips on how to make a resolution you’re more likely to keep. It involves fewer ‘good intentions’ and more ‘realistic planning.’

Let’s Set a SMART Goal

You may have heard of this technique before; it’s usually touted in the business world as the best way to achieve career success. I’ve used it in a business context, but I’ve also used it for my personal life, and I can personally attest that this is the most effective way to improve your life. The reason it works is that it forces you to set a realistic goal, and it puts measures in place to help you keep going when that goal is challenged, because it will be challenged at some point next year. It’s essentially helping you to internalize the fact that life is difficult and unpredictable, because when you set a goal with this fact in mind, you’re more likely to achieve that goal than if you’d set it thinking the universe was going to reward you with a smooth path from desire to result.

Here are the qualities your New Year’s resolution should have, in order for it to have the greatest chance of being achievable.

  1. Specific – Your resolution has to be specific, so that you can focus your efforts on achieving it. ‘Get my life together’ is not specific, meaning you don’t know what you need to do to get there, meaning you’re already on the back foot. What specific area of your life needs improving? Let’s say it’s your finances – you’re broke all the time, and you hate it. Okay, let’s get more specific: WHY are you broke all the time? Is it credit card debt? Are you underpaid at your job? Are you not putting money into savings? You need to dig into the details here, and that takes some mental fortitude. It might help to talk to a trusted friend or a counselor if you’re feeling some fear or anxiety around the idea of examining your life to get to the heart of what you need to change. Be brave; you can do this.
  2. Measurable – How do you know when you’ve reached your goal? Hell, how do you know if it’s even possible to reach this goal in a year? Well, you won’t know, unless your goal has some kind of objective measure so that you know for a fact when you’ve met it. You also need to measure your goal so that you know if you’re moving toward it or away from it. You can adjust your decisions if you find that you’re moving away from your goal, but again, you need that measurable goal in place in order to determine that. Let’s say your resolution is to write a novel in 2017. That’s a good goal! It’s specific; you know exactly what you’re wanting to do – but a novel is a big project. How will you know if you’re on track to finish the novel by this time next year? You have to put measurements in place. How many pages per month do you need to write to finish by next December? How many hours do you estimate that will take you? Write it out, and see if your current life circumstances can accommodate the kind of time you’ll need to put into writing, researching, and editing in order to finish the novel in a year. If it’s looking like you can’t commit to writing for, say, two hours each day for the year, you’ll need to adjust your time frame, or adjust your life to free up more time per day. Either way, this puts you in control of the situation by helping you know what’s needed to get where you want to go.
  3. Achievable – We all have lofty aspirations for ourselves, and in some ways that’s good – what is life without the ability to dream? But if you’re making a resolution to improve your life, that probably means it’s time to bring your goals down from ‘existential’ and into ‘practical.’ Can you go from ‘zero knowledge’ to ‘total fluency’ in a new language in one year? Probably not, due to the human brain’s limitations when it comes to learning languages. But I bet you can complete several language courses and be able to hold a simple conversation in a year! Can you pay off 50 grand in credit card debt in a year, when you take home 30 grand in that year? The math says no. But I bet you can talk to your card company, get current on your payments, and maybe get a quarter of that debt gone in a year! Set yourself up for success by setting goals a reasonable person could achieve in that time frame.
  4. Relevant – Okay, yes, we all want to be astronauts or marine biologists or win a Pulitzer. Like I said, keep those dreams alive. But in the context of a New Year’s resolution, it’s easier to achieve goals that are relevant to your life as it is right now. It’s much easier to stay focused on a goal that is going to fix a problem you’re currently having, or that will improve the situation you’re currently in, as opposed to a goal that sits outside your current life circumstances. If you have those long-term goals in mind that involve changing your whole life, that’s great! Use short-term goals like resolutions to take one or two steps toward those long-term ones. We can all set some wacky resolutions, like learning to speak Tolkien Elvish or building your own tiny house, but make sure that those projects are going to directly benefit your life somehow, so that you feel good about spending all that time and effort in achieving it. Your resolution should further all your other life goals, not sit outside of or detract from them.
  5. Timely – This is one of those hard questions you have to ask yourself: is it the right time to undertake this goal? It could be the best goal in the world, but if it’s not the right time, you’re not setting yourself up for success. I work for a university, and one of my graduate students decided to get married and buy a house at the same time as she was writing her doctoral dissertation AND studying to take a state licensing board exam! Don’t you think she’d have been less stressed out and done a better job at all those major projects if she’d have spread them out a little? Finish graduate school, THEN pass the board, THEN get married, THEN buy a house? To me, that sounds like much less of a panic attack than doing it all in the same four-month span. It’s okay to wait until it’s the right time to jump on a new project – better, in fact, because if the timing is right, you’re more likely to be able to stick with it and not get sidetracked by other huge life events. We can’t control everything life throws at us, but if you look around and see that you’re embroiled in several big projects or changes right now, you can choose to not undertake a new, optional project to add to all that. Watch for the right time to undertake a new big thing. It’ll come up, if it’s an important goal for you. And if you choose to wait and a few months later realize it’s not that important after all? That’s fine too – it’s more time and attention that you can focus on other things.

Once you’ve worked through all this, write down your specific goal, the time frame, and how you’re going to achieve it. Hang it up somewhere visible, where you’ll see it every day. Write down when you reach milestones toward that goal as well (one month of hitting the gym three days a week, half my savings goal met, etc.), and enlist some friends to help keep you motivated, celebrate your successes, and give their support when it’s hard. With the right tools and planning, and a good dose of realism, you can definitely set New Year’s resolutions that you’ll be celebrating at the end of next year.

Product Review: Lush Christingle Shower Moisturizer 

Oh, Lush. If I were to work in retail again, I’d work for you, so that at least I’d get a discount when I spend my whole paycheck on your products.

I reviewed their Toothie Tabs a while back, and I realized that I enjoy reviewing Lush products that are a little…different. We all know their shampoo and body wash rock, but I’m in love with how creative they get with some of their products. When I went to restock my tabs and my R&B hair moisturizer, the friendly associate at the San Antonio Lush demonstrated this nifty in-shower body lotion on me.

Christingle is a seasonal product, so it’ll be gone once Christmas is over, in case you wanted to step away and place an order right quick. It’s this thick, bright blue lotion that smells deliciously like peppermint. Rather than putting it on post-shower, you put it on *in* the shower and rinse it off. Think of it as the conditioner step for your skin – you scrub up and rinse off with your regular soap or body wash, then rub this on and rinse right before you get out. That way, your pores are already open and ready for all that hydration.

I dunno about you, but for me, peppermint scents say ‘holidays’ all over the place. Peppermint mochas, candy canes, all that good stuff. So Christingle is the perfect skin product for winter – it smells like the holidays, and it’s a fantastic moisturizer for dry winter skin. My big issue in winter is that my feet and legs get super dry. I walk around my apartment barefoot year-round, so that arguable habit paired with artificially-heated indoor air tends to leave my feet needing a little extra care during the winter months. I use a pumice stone every time I shower, to keep the calluses at bay, but the second step to that plan is to moisturize my feet. Turns out, doing so in the shower works great! And no, my feet didn’t feel slimy after, so no trip hazard here. I was definitely worried about slipping with this stuff, but I haven’t had any problems staying upright.

All in all, this is an excellent product, per the usual with Lush (they’re still not paying me to do these reviews, I just love them). It smells great, it lasts a good while, and it works famously to soften my skin without leaving it feeling gooey or clogging my pores. Definitely a great winter purchase, or even a good holiday gift for the skincare junkie in your life.

Cold Season Skin Care

We’ve talked about seasonal skin care on here before, but I realized the other day, as I was nursing a cold, that there’s another type of skin care challenge that sort of ties in with that seasonal talk I already did:

How do you help your skin bounce back after you’ve been sick?

My cold-season skin arsenal.

For the purposes of this post, when I say ‘sick’ I mean a cold, the flu, allergies, etc. I would think that if I had something more serious than that I’d be much less concerned about my skin. But since most of us are likely to get one of those three illnesses at some point this winter (hopefully not all three!), I think it’s a good idea to go over some tips for helping take care of yourself on the outside while you fight off The Ick on the inside.

  1. Focus on getting healthy again. This means taking your meds if needed/doctor-approved, eating healthy, drinking tons of water, and resting. Not only will this help you get over your crud sooner, these are already good tips for healthy skin when you’re not sick. Get the basics handled, so that all the rest is easier.
  2. Up your moisture game. Your body is diverting all its fluids to helping fight off your cold, so not only do you need extra moisture inside, you need it outside too. Between decongestants that dry out your whole body – skin included – and blowing your nose every ten seconds, your face probably gets red, raw, and dried out, even if it’s normally oily. Add a nighttime moisturizer or sleep pack to your routine, or up your sheet mask frequency, to replenish what your skin is losing. Don’t forget your eye cream to reduce sneezing-related puffiness and dark circles. You can gently massage your under-eye area with some eye cream to break up some of the swelling.
  3. Stick to your skin routine as much as you can. I know, you’re tired and feel awful. But using what’s left of your energy to at least do your nighttime skin routine will keep your face from rebelling against you while you’re sick. You have my permission to skip a serum or mask step; I know you’re not up for it. If you’re taking lots of hot showers to open up your breathing passages, wash your face while you’re in there. Don’t forget your daily sunscreen, even if you are camped out on the couch. If nothing else, you’re maintaining a good habit so that you keep doing it after you’re back in action.
  4. Utilize essential oils. No, I don’t mean to cure your cold – pretty sure those claims are bogus. But all those oils I talked about for skin care can also be really soothing when you’re sick. Lavender helps you sleep if you put a drop on your pillowcase or a cotton ball, and my personal favorite for cold care is eucalyptus – I put some eucalyptus oil on a washrag and hung it in the shower, then got the water really hot. It basically created a vapor steam in my bathroom, and while the apartment smelled like a koala bear for days, it really helped calm my aches and wheezing to shower that way.

Cold and flu season is a pain, but there are good things already in your home that you can use to combat it and to help your skin bounce back sooner. This way, you’ll be feeling better AND you won’t have to hear people saying things like ‘Are you sick? You look tired.’ Nobody needs that while they’re getting over a cold.

Shangpree Crystal BB Cream

Those of you who have followed the blog for a bit know that I don’t wear much makeup. When I got this BB cream as a PinkSeoul box sample, I thought, ‘Perfect! I didn’t spend extra money on it, and it won’t expire at the bottom of my makeup box.’ I do have some tinted moisturizer that I use when I need to, but I purposely got a travel size of it since I so rarely wear it.

Anyway, Shangpree Crystal BB cream. It came in a tiny packet with a pretty red label, and when I squeezed it out, the product was fairly thick, but not as oily as I suspected. My PinkSeoul box is always the one for oily skin, but I still have misgivings about any foundation and its ability to sit on my face without causing a terrible breakout.

I put on sunscreen at the end of my morning face routine, as I didn’t see anything about the BB cream itself having SPF. I tapped the BB cream onto my face with (clean!) fingers, then just kind of tapped it around until it was all blended properly. For someone who can never seem to match foundation to her skin tone (thanks, Native ancestors), this one soaked right in and didn’t leave any kind of a line around the edges of my face.

Morning photo with excellent lighting.


The real test of any kind of face-goo for me is how it stands up to my oily, oily face throughout the day. You know how your oil cleanser dissolves your makeup? My face does that for me! Ha ha, I’m so special. I packed some shimmer powder and blotting papers with me, in case I got what I call ‘the frosted sheet cake effect’ as the day wore on. I did blot at lunchtime, but I didn’t need the powder! Wow! I added a coat of mascara and my favorite lipstick to finish off the look, because for some reason evening out my skin tone like that kinda made my eyes and lips disappear.

End of day photo with less-great lighting. A little shiny, but not nearly as bad as I feared!

Aside from the staying power, I really liked how well this product evened out the redness in my skin. It’s thicker than tinted moisturizer, which I hear is a quality of most BB creams, so I was able to build it up enough to get the effect I was going for, something tinted moisturizer can’t really do for me. That might be my fault. Not even denying that.

Would I wear this again? Sure! I’m still not interested in getting up every danged morning early enough to do my skincare routine AND this, but if I came across some on sale after my tinted moisturizer runs out or expires, I’d give it a run for the occasions I felt like wearing it.

The thing about makeup for me is that it’s like an art project for my face. There’s something cool about that. It’s also a moment of self-pampering that feels pretty empowering, because I like to walk out of the house feeling like I look particularly good sometimes. We should all allow ourselves to feel that way, however we go about it.